"IT is not easy to get a Chennai girl for dating," writes Metacafe. "They are very orthodox basically. They are too shy. They dont get into love all that easily. They have to know a man for some time, move with him for some days and then only they will fall in love. It will take some more days to indulge them in sex..." . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . DATING is hard enough when you are awkward and young, but in Chennai you encounter all sorts of added difficulties including the possibility of being picked up by the police and hauled off to jail if you cannot produce the wedding rings, or the necessary papers. Is Chennai a conservative city? -- I don't know, I have never been there, but I have heard plenty of disturbing reports. The Clandestine Lovers' Guide to Chennai (aka Krish Ashok) writes: "If you and your clandestine love partner are the Twin Towers of romance, the city of Chennai is the metaphorical plane (or plain) that is likely to crash into the both of you. The city's conservatism is mostly harmless, but when it comes to matters of amour, it almost forces lovers to say "So long and thanks for all the fish" and escape to the restaurant at the end of the universe. It's almost as if most of the maamaas in Chennai are like Zaphod Beeblebrox, one head solving the Hindu newspaper crossword while the other is busy scanning beaches and parks for any public displays of affection with an extremely critical eye. In Chennai, the presence of unmarried girl and unmarried boy within a distance of 10 metres from each other is considered to be a public display of affection..." . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . IN spite of all this, Krish Ashok recommends some good places for couples to meet in Chennai, such as the central section of Marina Beach (opposite the Ice House). The northern side of Besant Nagar Beach (near the Orur Alcott fisherman's village) also comes recommended. Krish Ashok severely cautions against flirtatious behavior and unmarried coupling at other beaches in Chennai, especially on East Coast Road. Go visit Krish Ashok's site for more information on where to go if you dating in Chennai, and what to do if the cops start harrassing you. Respect goes out to all who posted there. If you want see YouTube evidence of the segregation of the sexes in Tamil Nadu, click here. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . A commentator more on their game than me has remarked: "Chennai dating girls are excellent to date with.They are very soft but very intelligent. They look very pretty and stylish. They love candle light dinners with their lovers. They are true lovers and give unforgettable company to their dates." However, I do know that the Internet is huge in India (and Sri Lanka) and rolling out further every day; at any time there are millions of Tamils online, hooking up. If you want to hook up with Tamils anywhere in the world online, this webpage here can help you. If you want to hook up offline, this guide will try to help as well.

f r e a k i n g - o u t - o f f l i n e WOULDN'T IT BE COOL TO ABLE TO SEE THE GEOGRAPHICAL LOCATIONS OF THE GIRL OR BOY YOU ARE CHATTING WITH ON THE SCREEN, WITH HELPFUL DIRECTIONS ON HOW TO HOOK UP? Kind of like Gaydar for straights, with GPS coordinates served right up to your Blackberry or iPhone. Maybe I should develop the technology myself. Anyway, I have heard the Kishkinta amusement park in Tambaram (India's number one theme park) is a good place to freak out. Freak out means to have a lot of fun, to enjoy a lot. Past tense is froke out!. As in Thailand, an Indian family is very close knit, and a western boyfriend will eventually be accepted into that family providing his intentions appear to be honourable. It's not an easy task to break down this cultural barrier. However, it’s my experience that the Indian people of Malaysia are the friendliest of all ethnic groups and they are certainly easy to talk to and reason with. For those wanting to make a good impression to the girl's father, simply take along a bottle of 'black label' and the cultural differences will melt away, or at least for that night..." It is worth noting that Harry has a wife of Malaysian Indian extraction, so he knows what he is talking about.

g i r l s - n u m b e r s LOOKING FOR GIRLS NUMBERS IN CHENNAI. There are ten types of matchings astrologers check to see the marriage compatibility. They are: Dhinam: This indicate the luck, health and longevity of partners. Mahendran: This indicate level of wealth especially money to be generated by them in future. Sthree Dhirgam: This indicates all kinds of wealth to be acquired in their life. Yoni: This indicates the intimacy between the partners in their private life. Raasi: This indicates the birth (progeny) and luck to have children. Vashiyam: This indicate the intimacy level between the partners in general life and misunderstanding between them. Rajju: This indicates the longevity of partners and losing partner within short time. Vedhai: Here are some Tamil wedding resources: . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Brides of Sri Lanka: Sri Lanka's first and only bridal and wedding resource. Here is everything you could need here in planning and executing your Sri Lankan wedding. You can find: love poems to include in your wedding stationery; "all you need to know" about the bridal shower; recipes from the kitchen to help you look good at the ceremony. These recipes include a lemon facial toner, a foaming hot chocolate milk bath, a strawberry foot exfoliant and a handcream treatment employing grated beeswax, jojoba oil and aloe vera. If you need drummers and dancers for your wedding in Sri Lanka, you can find some here. You can also find help in booking hotels, finding wedding photographers, arranging entertainment and of course ordering wedding cakes! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Wed In Sri Lanka: The Online Wedding Planner. This site is intended for Sri Lankans abroad and at home, and for non-Sri Lankans who wish to get married in Sri Lanka. If you are looking for a wedding partner in Sri Lanka, you can even search for one here. The site can provide services such as hotel receptions, entertainment (music, band, DJ), dressing and dress making, help with the Poruwa ceremony, and caters for Buddhist, Hindu, Christian and Muslim weddings. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . FAST LOVE, SPEED DATING UPDATE: VALENTINES DAY 2009 afags! wrote recently: "This year, the buzz around Valentine's Day has gone up several notches, what with chaddis and sarees being exchanged by those on the two sides of a high-pitched morality battle. However, it's not just the pro- and anti-Valentine's Day groups that are raising the decibel level: radio stations too are lining up with a host of activities for the special day. "So, for instance, if the boys tune into Red FM's Mumbai station, they get an opportunity to woo RJ Malishka and earn the glorious title of Malishka ka sabse bada deewana. The contenders for the title would have three options to prove their deewanapan: shaving half their head is the first option; waxing the body and walking around the city dressed as a woman is the second; the third option is to get an autograph from Shahrukh Khan before the 14th of this month. "Maintaining its programming initiative of addressing the issue of the economic slowdown, Big FM has rolled out Chota Budget, Bada Pyar offering listeners romantic and exotic, yet cost-effective, options to make the most of the day. RJs will share interesting tips on cost-effective gifts, shopping destinations, restaurants and other love destinations. They will also invite listeners to share their love stories and dedicate songs on air. "Bengaluru, which has been the epicentre of all the recent hoopla over morality, will witness speed dating on V-day: a concept where men and women are rotated to meet each other over a series of short dates, usually lasting from three to eight minutes. At the end of each interval, the organiser rings a bell or clinks a glass to signal the participants to move on to the next date. "At the end of the event, participants submit a list of who they would like to provide their contact information to. If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties. Radio One is powering this initiative and will accept entries through the on-air shows. It will select 40 contestants, 20 boys and 20 girls, who will then participate in the speed dating contest. Speed is the flavour of the day at Radio City as well. The station, in association with Force India, will send one lucky couple on an all-expenses-paid trip to the Malaysian Sepang Grand Prix. This offer includes travel and stay in five-star luxury, a personal interaction with Team Force India and a stash of exclusive Force India goodies.

m e e t i n g - c h e n n a i - g i r l s - o n l i n e WITH ALL THE DIFFICULTIES IN OFFLINE DATING IN CHENNAI, IT IS NO WONDER THAT MANY YOUNG TAMILS HAVE MOVED ONLINE TO FLIRT AND LOOK FOR A PARTNER. Nonetheless, online dating presents many problems of its own and there are certain rules to be learnt, and moves to be mastered. I am not the best person to say it but it seems to me that successful dating is all about attitude, and playing the game (and knowing how to win.) As in any sport there is always room for improvement, and a tough coach can be a blessing. If you need help "lifting your game" (as my Kiwi buddy Maniac High would say, before he was carted off to jail) you should consider hitting the books, and learning. (You can also learn something here although I am know expert in dating by any means -- think of me more as the Devil's Advocate.) Now I know not many people out there have the money nor the inclination to go and buy a real book (all the books I get are free, courtesy of World Family in Japan!) However, there are plenty of guides and books on the Internet, many of them downloadable. Hit up Torrent Hub for a glimpse of what is out there. On my last visit I found such sacred texts as No More Bullshit: The $999 Dirty Dating Secret (pdf), Don't Be Shy (A Simple Guide to Dating) (book) and Dating the Asian Way (this one is a TV show coming in at 488.49 MB). AdultDost: Real Friends, Real Fun. The slickest and the sexiest, the fittest and the funnest new player on the adult friends circuit in India right now. That is what I had hoped to believe, until I tried logging in to see the Chennai and Tamil hotties which were promised. And then I realized it was all just a scam... But a mighty fine scam nonetheless... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 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Registration is free, and you can browse matrimonial profiles by caste (Adi Dravidar, Brahmin, Chettiar, Gounder, Mudaliar, Nadar, Naicker and more), community (Hindu, Muslim, Christian, Jain, Jewish and so on), and occupation. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Fropper: Indian Social Networking. "No one's a stranger," is the motto of this famous networking site, one of the largest of its kind, with four million members. With so many members, you are bound to find hordes of people online at any time, and you can chat with any of them. You can even search for old friends to see if they are Fropper members. Interestingly, the Fropper landing page is adorned with a red cricket ball, nestled in lush green grass. Not surprisingly, you can view cricket videos here, as well as Bollywood, music and comedy. Registration is free. If it is your thing, you can post your own blog. Your own EZ Blog. 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With its Google style logo, Viva Street is described as one of India's premier free classifieds sites. Like Craig's List for the subcontinent. You can look for a recipe, a carpool, a lesbian lover... or you can look for hot Chennai girls. Of course, Chennai is not the only part of Tamil Nadu covered; you can also look up and hook up with girls from Coimbatore, Cuddalore, Dindigul, Erode, Kanchipuram, Kanyakumari, Madurai, Salem, Thanjavur, Theni, Thoothukudi, Tiruchirappalli, Tirunelveli, Tiruppur, Tiruvallur and Vellore. And beyond that, the rest of India awaits... Want to recommend a good place to meet Tamil girls in Tamil Nadu or Sri Lanka or India or America or wherever you live now? Go here for the comments: View Comments Post Comments Contact the author Rob Sullivan at coderot@gmail.com. Copyright December 2012.